NAKED BUT NOT ASHAMED Gen.2:24-25

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NAKED BUT NOT ASHAMED
For marriage-able singles
And married friends out there
Want to share some marriage revelations
I got before going into marriage
It might benefit you too
As it has done me well ever since

Therefore shall a man leaves
His father and mother
And shall cleave to his wife
And shall be one flesh
And they were both naked
The man and his wife
And were not ashamed

Lesson 1
A man need to leave Father and Mother
Lesson 2
He must cleave to his wife
Lesson 3
They both need to be one flesh
Lesson 4
They both need to be naked
Lesson 5
Then they will never know shame

LEAVE
Marriage involves a lot of leaving

a.  Leave your Parent house
Don’t make your own home
Inside your Parent’s
Go elsewhere to make yours too
No matter how many houses your father has
If he asks you to take one of his house
Pay him the rent thereof
You are still a boy
Your age notwithstanding
If you are still under your
Parent roof after marriage
There are lot of issues you can’t avoid
Living with your parent
And you will put your wife
Through a lot of pressure
That could have being avoided
If you were on your own
She is your wife
Don’t make her OUR wife so leave

b.  Leave your Parent financially
Don’t be financial dependent
On your parent after marriage
If you are not strong enough
In every sense to marry-don’t
If you are married and you are still
Being fed by your Parent
No matter how rich they are
It's not honourable
Take responsibility
For the finances of your home
You don’t have to have
All the money in the world
In order to take care of your family
Bible says it takes a man to leave
So be man enough to fund your family expenses

c.   Leave your Parent emotionally
You will have issues in your marriage if you are
Still tied to your Parent’s apron
Before anything could happen in your marriage
Your Parent have heard it
You are doing yourself a lot of harm than good
Learn to be emotionally stable
To handle your home
There are many marriages
Going through divorce today
Because both couples have not left
Their Parent emotionally
Your wife is not your Mum
So stop comparing them
Her soup will surely be different
So accept her style too
‘My Dad would not have done that’
Will not save your marriage
Accept your Husband personality

Until you fulfill Lesson 1
Lesson 2 will be very defficult to achieve

To be continued

Stay tune

Shalom

WALE OYEBADE

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