MORE THAN WHAT PEOPLE SAY



A lot of people give up on themselves
Even when God still believes in them
They pray to God to forgive them
But they never forgive themselves
Such act of self-condemnation is destructive
And I discovered it start when they are young

I remember a girl in school
Who never see anything good in all she did
Always comparing herself with people
Including her siblings and friends
She lacks faith in her existence
Because her parent never think
She could amount to anything in life
They never told her with words
But they have said that to her several
Times through their actions

I have a word to parents out there
Never compare your children with one another
Don’t praise one
At the expense of killing another one self-esteem
You are only building a family war among
Your children without knowing it
Build confidence and a good self-esteem
Into them while they are young and still with you
It will make them scales through pressures out there
And develop a thick skin against bad influence

You can’t imagine what people do
All to gain acceptance
Smoking, drinking, dating and partying
Doing things that are not convenience
And that are not morally sound
Usually but not all the time
Have their root in lack of self esteem
Following the cloud and what is in vogue
Is a sign of weak character and lack of self-confidence
Many people have been lured into what is not
Just because their friends
Think is strange for them not to be doing the same

But I will like you to know
You are unique in every sense
Your make-up was dictated by your purpose
You are fashioned uniquely for a mandate
Sport cars are good at sporting
Buses for commuting
Trucks do best at carrying loads
While trailers are heavy weight carrier
Their reason for existence dictates their formation
So you may be tall or short
Fat, thin, black, brown and even red
You are never a mistake
You know my Pastor told us there are no dull brains
The field of interest is what makes the difference
If everyone will harness 
His energy in his areas of interest
The result will be amazingly great

So your friends, relative and even family
May not know the reason why you are here
Because you are not born of the will of man
So don’t give up on yourself
Because men refuse to believe in you
God has never created a worthless being
When He look at you He praise Himself
So friend
You are more than what people say 

Join me tomorrow
Saturday 20th October 2012 for
WHETTING THE EDGE CONFERENCE
Theme: DON’T GIVE UP
By 1 pm
In GoodTime Fast Food Moshalasi Bus stop
Alimosho Iyana-Ipaja Lagos Nigeria

SEE YOU THERE

SHALOM

WALE OYEBADE

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